There's nothing to be ashamed about crying over a loss. I lost my brother in a car accident and I cry about it all the time. I know what it feels like.
@no one k sorry to get nerdy with you especially considering this was like a month ago. But you can. Having bad memory is actually not forgetting things. You technically don't really lose memories. You mind kinda hides them from you. You have other memories and primary memories. Primary memories you can remember on the spot, sometimes those memories become other memories. Your brain still has access to nostalgic memories, but you'll probably only think of them at random times, because at those times your brain pit them back into primary.
Crying is not embarrassing Ryan remember that. I've lost my grandma about 2 years ago and every time I think about all those memories I had with her makes me cry like a baby. Remember we're here with you!
whenever i hear stories of people with loved ones that passed away, i always feel sad and feel grateful for the people i still have i'm one of those people as well.
It's alright man I cry over my grandma and she's not even dead yet it's just the thought of it that makes me cry it's okay we understand what it's like you don't have to be embarrassed or ashamed of it
It’s not embarrassing it’s beautiful. and the fact that you kept it in the video shows how brave you are, and now you have motivated me to try this for my self to connect with my memories both good and bad
there is nothing to be ashamed over losing someone importante dude, i lost two very close friends and seeing pictures, videos or just rememebring them still makes my heart tremble and shatter into pieces
5:08-5:50, I felt that. when a memory from the past all of a sudden comes in and the only thing you feel like doing is crying. It changes you so much, and is indescribable unless you have experienced it before.
I want to spend more re time with my grandparents, and I don’t want electronics to take my attention over spending time with my grandparents. I dread the day when they are gone 😢❤❤ Lots of love to everyone who has lost someone
I cried after you had told a story about your grandma Instantly I started thinking about mine and yeah, waterfall began Please, dude, we love you, in any case, this wasn't embarrassing in any way, I would even say it was beautiful and touching. We love you so much and we would never make fun of something like that Ryan.
I remember visiting a sensory depravation chamber and staying the healthy legal time of 3 hours and I vividly remembered the pain I went through caused by my own parents, and the incompetency of their choices. If your life is 80% suffering, that place isn't a great place to be, your mind will make you remember things you would have forgotten, or forced to forget to keep your sanity.
It's not embarrassing at all. It is beautiful. And I applaud you for going through that. I. Could. Never. But I do know a few things about hightened emotions in isolated situations and I know how strong and powerful they are. You just showed us your wonderful, kind soul, don't sweat the crying at all. Like I said, it was a beautiful and a poignant moment each of us can relate to. Bravo, Ryan. Chapeau. And a new sub. :)
That grandma part hit me so hard. My grandma was my second mum, even more than my mum was when I was young she did everything for me and I loved her to bits, she died at 55 of cancer and to this day I can't even speak about her or think about her properly without just crying its literally uncontrollable. I know exactly how you feel there man it's not embarrassing it shows how kuch you loved her.
no need to feel ashamed ryan, that story you had about your grandma is similar to one of mine just know we will never make fun of you, we love you and will always be here for you.
I love how you trust us to talk to us about your memory about your grandmother. It's obvious that she meant alot to you. You don't have to be embarrassed, we all have that one person who has had a huge impact in our lives.
My grandpa died when I was at my friends house 2 years ago . Every time I hear even his name a burst into tears don’t worry. When I went home a bust into tears R.I.P your grandma and everybody loved ones who passed away
Ryan, please don't say it's embarrassing to cry, because there is nothing to be ashamed of. Yes its maybe uncomfortable (probably what you meant), but to be able to cry is something wonderful and we should appreciate it. Thank you for showing this
I had to travel to study alone for a year and my mom was the one that wave me goodbye whilst I walked into the security checkpoint. On that day I have never been more in tears as I had in 18 years of my entire life, I couldn't imagine the amount of emotion someone have to been going though when they lost a love one
I cry about my dad sometimes, not because he's dead but he's getting older which saddens me a lot. So there's nothing wrong or embarrassing about crying about your loss or what's worrying you.
Don’t feel embarrassed, I have nightmares about my Aunt from when she passed away. I do know what you’re going through. You shouldn’t be embarrassed about crying because of loss, you should let it be the step you take back in order to propel yourself forward.
9 months later, this video comes up to everyones' feed! Thank you for this video, may god bless you for all the unspoken pain we all go through individually ❤
You should never be embarrassed about crying, especially over a loss.I could relate so much. Id feel these emotions just like i did when my grandmother was here, yet it still makes me tear up. Never be embarrassed or ashamed.
Always happens in life. Don't let it get to you❤💖. There is always a reason why your Grandma raised you🙌💫. We are all here for you Ryan🌅. What a true man💖💪
Ryan, that moment was amazing, not embarrassing. We as men must embrace that we, too, can and should feel without shame. It was great to see you visit such a distant memory through a genuine experience.
@Username™ no, we're pointing an existing issue and we're not pretending that it doesn't exist by actually mentioning it. Us as women say "Yes, this shit shouldn't be normalized and as women, we shouldnt have to accept this". We're pointing out an issue here so I dont see what you're upset about.
@Username™ he was just stating the fact, that most dudes don’t feel like they have the right to express their feelings, don’t make it a bad thing please
@Username™ he just adressed the fact that we have a rooted prejudice that tells us that men shouldn't express everything we feel, because he thought that was the reason that the youtuber said it was embarassing He is just comforting him, not perpetuating an issue
I lost my grandma 2 years ago unexpectedly in a car accident. She played a big role in my life and also helped raise me along with me grandpa. I still cry occasionally till this day and even now this made me tear up. This is normal, not embarrassing ❤️.
You shouldn't be embarrassed about losing someone. I lost my grandpa when I was 7. I still stay awake long nights crying about them, it is unescapable pain.
as much as sensory deprivation sounds scary, honestly i find it relaxing too, you're all alone with nothing touching you, nothing holding you down, it's just only you and your thoughts, it's like leaving the world for a bit before you return back to reality, sound alike a surreal experience
Mate that’s not embarrassing…………I know what it feels like to lose someone and I lossed my grandma in the same way……but I bet she died very peacefully and is with may other loved ones in heaven❤and for those who have also lost someone…it’s ok people are here for you and any one you have lost is always watching over you,god bless you all❤
I was watching this with my family and when you started talking about your grandmother, we all fell silent. Just listening to your words. Thinking about our own grandma, and how we would fair if we were to do this ourselves. Great content dude!
There is nothing to be ashamed of. I lost my grandmother last year and I remember when I was a child she would always call me by my last name because we had the same one and when she saw I didn’t feel happy she would always bring me joy OMG this comment was so hard to write I started feeling sad mid way 🥲😬
No need to feel embarrassed, tears are normal especially if you lost someone . It’s hard to go through losing someone I’ve been there multiple times and I’ve learned it’s ok to feel sad, it’s okay to cry, it’s okay to feel some sort of grief so don’t be embarrassed, you should be proud that you can get it out in a healthy way!
I miss grandparents more than anything. I only have my mom’s mother left. I went from having four grandparents to one. And one day..none. If we didn’t feel emotion, we wouldn’t love them. The emotion is literally a direct result of our love for them.
5:50 Ryan you should not feel embarrassed about this at all, i can heavily relate to missing both my grandma and my nana, that's not embarrassing, that's emotion
Honestly I think I would really like to try this out. I seek places of total silence and they're pretty hard to find in todays world. Really amazing to see that a level 3 version of a "silent" room exists
an award for "i'll do anything for views". the minute he was out he mindlessly scrolled on his phone. he didn't care or see the value in his own experiment
wow Ryan nice job!! And when he started cryin oh lord I started crying with him and it’s not embarrassing it shows that you also have emotion and that your a regular human-cause all humans cry and that is ok ofc😊
I feel like i go through this all the time, i have always had sleep problems if i am not DEAD tired, and so i lay there in the dark for hours and hours, with my thoughts keeping me company, with minutes turning into hours, not dreaming, but within my own void of the mind. Being and only child too, i had spent years and years (before i was really into technology) writing in my little quote book, and at all times, being alone and always thinking about my own existence and all the existential stuff. I feel like i would do really well in one of those chambers for a long period of time, it would be like being in the middle stage between dreaming and being awake, where things shrink and expand, ever feeling endless and vast, losing all sense of self and body...-i guess i have grown to like that feeling, but i can see how many would not fare well in such an environment for a long time, but time does not exist, you just have no obligations there.
Honestly this sounds so relaxing. No noise, no visual, no gravity. Only issue is I would get bored rather quickly with no way to write down what goes down in my head and likely would sleep through most of it.
Sometimes I see myself crying out my problems, I suddenly feel all the emotions and the pain of somethings that happened recently and I can't help but break down and allow myself to let it all out, there's nothing to be ashamed of for doing that man, we should actually be thankful that we even have those joyful memories
Don't be embarrassed about losing your grandma I lost my grandpa years ago but by still cry sometimes and I also get sad of the fact that my grandma is in the hospital 😢
I pray for everyone who reads this that whatever they are going through gets better, whatever they are suffering with or worrying about will be okay, and that everyone has a wonderful day.❤
you shouldn’t be embarrassed to show us your emotions, you’re human too and we totally understand that you have experiences and memories of your own! thank you for telling us about your grandma and your moment with her
Nothing to be embarrassed about remembering your grandparents. I'm in the process of losing all four of mine at once and I'm embarrassed at how little I remember them.
I've had a member who passed too. A grandma. I lover her with all my heart. After she passed, I couldn't believe it. It struck me to where the point I couldn't hold my tears in. I cried at her funeral, I felt embarrassed, but people told me, "it's okay to cry and express your feelings and tears. It's not embarrassing, it's letting those emotions out. It's okay to cry. It's not embarrassing. We all thought when something happened to our members or whoever, we thought it was embarrassing,, but, crying and thinking is embarrassing, is okay. Crying isn't an embarrassing thing to do".
When he talked about his grandma.. I literally started to tears up a bit. Im very scared to loose my grandmother, I love her so much bc she always loved me and helped me...
Hearing about people who were close with their grandparents in childhood makes me wish I knew mine when I was younger.. but they (from both sides of the family) lived in a different country and the only times I saw them was when I visited each country once when I was way younger, I barely remember them.. It’s weird not being able to relate to an experience that sounds as common as being close with your grandparents. Sometimes I wonder what that relationship with them would’ve been like.
I've actually experienced this just by using earplugs when i was studying. it hits different when the entire world goes completely silent, and all you hear is the low buzz in your own body.
ya losing a person you love and crying about is nothing to be ashamed of it happens but sometimes you just have to be strong and hold on tight to those memories and remember that there always gonna be with you
I get it Ryan, I lost my grandma and she was my second mom. She raised me and my brothers with my mom. She was my best friend and there isn't a day where I don't think about her. Its ok to cry, sometimes it's good to let it all out.
5:52 That isn't embarrassing. I share your pain because I lost my grandmother this spring, and any memory that reminds me of her I struggle because my grandmother was like a mother to me.
Do not be embarrassed at all about your memory! That was beautiful! Your emotions were so raw! It made me stop and think about my grandparents who practically raised me as well! It’s a lot of feelings !
I feel like sometimes it can be a good thing when you are sensory overloaded, can be a good reset or to get your mind together and fight some of your fears. Tho probably i wouldn’t want 3 hours at first time… for me both getting sensory overload and deprivation is bad but i think when it’s controlled this can be a good escape or even face up with yourself
Ryan, just know that when you talked about how you took naps with ur grandma and started to cry, I no cap cried too lol. I legit cried too bc I thought about how my grandma is not here anymore and how much I did stuff with here when she was here and how much I missed her to. Ryan, your not alone. I cried when you cried. And that’s okay. That means your really a great Person and yea. But just know that everyone is different and even if you did cry and I didn’t, I’d still not be like, “ryan is such a baby”. I wouldn’t do that. I’d respect you and stay subbed to you even though you did that. So great job Ryan and congrats on surviving lol.
Ryan i have felt that way there's no way to be embarrassed when my dog passed i cried a lot to see him for the last time after maybe for a month later i saw his photo i cried like a rain cloud respect ryan and i agree with Digispark shout out for his respect
I'm a HSP (For those who aren't familiar, overly sensitive to all kinds of stimuli. A bit like living with no filter on your surroundings etc) I can't decide whether I really want to try this someday or if it would scare me to death.
I honestly would love to try something like this. Just absolutely disconnected from the physical world, feeling like I’m literally inside of my own thoughts
Ryan. Its not embarrassing we are here all of us have had a loss your not alone when i remember all my memories with my brother its just happy and sad and makes me feel wrong for not having him here sometimes i get mad and say that i hate cars because i lost him in a car accident. Just know we are here for you we know how you feel
Props to you man. I can barely sit an read a book with my fan on for 15 minutes. Idk how you did 3 HOURS itch no light sound or gravity. I’m still in aww
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