My parents: Oh You WORTHLESS PIECE OF SHIT WE REMIND YOU WE HAD TO PAY THE WHOLE TUITION FEE FOR 1000$ AND THIS IS WHAT WE GET!?!?! GET OUT NOW Its Painful
Yeah I go to one of the most competitive schools in my state and alot of kids have the stereotypical "asian" parents and so many of them are scared to go home if they've failed a test and are afraid they'll dissapoint their parents this would probably make so many of them feel better me too
Awww I like that they even try to cheer the kid up instead of just yelling at them this shows they actually care about their child’s mental health and not just how they appear to the public 😭✨
@fyreEXE The kid gets nowhere if they have mental breakdowns either, parents being overly strict hurts just as much in the long run as it does not being strict enough because at least then you can remember a time when you were supported
@Gok Son I agree when I was young my parents divorced and I lived with my father if I failed a test I would be banned for 1month and grounded for 2weeks :(((
@yuh 😃 I feel like you won’t want to achieve more by getting a laid back response to a bad grade, getting a more serious response to it would be better.
this made me feel better. i’m currently flunking all my classes except for 2 and i’m super stressed about it because i’m failing it and have a crap ton of assignments missing which really isn’t helping and i accidentally left my grades on the table and my mom saw it- she scolded me and said if i didn’t figure out what to do about my grades and have them fixed by monday she’d take away my phone and any electronics until i fix my grades. it’s currently 10:33 pm and im crying doing my 3rd page of math homework in my bed without my mother knowing.
Watching this made me cry 😪 I didn't have the most loving or kind parents and when I was so proud of my first B they were disappointed that it wasn't a better grade. Sorry for the over sharing but I really appreciate your channel it's helping me heal ❤ Keep being Wonderful ❤
@i'M thE OriginAl viSuAl bIsH ah I agree, thats spoiling the kids too much, I feel like most parents are either too strict or too chill, theres a fine line there which most parents Dont balance ngl
@Simply Mudblood 💗 true. That's kinda what I said. Doing good things and motivating your kids when they worked hard but failed is good and stuff. But they shouldn't let the kid off the hook for sneaking out or faking getting sick
I wish you were my parents, I always am expected of an A on every test, even if I get a B, I'll get severely punished, your videos help me get over it, thanks for internet adopting me :)
Something to make this even better is that instead of watching a movie mom and dad will study with you while eating ice cream to tell us that it's okay to fail as failure is just a part of learning but to also try your best in everything and not ignore your responsibilities. Then maybe afterwards we can have movie night lol.
I feel that the movie before is better. Because when you Gail you aren't feeling too happy about it and would be scared to tell your parents and things. So the movie with them helps in bonding and builds trust and makes you feel ok about not doing well that time. Ofc you should look over it the very next day make sure it doesn't happen again.
No the movie is way better. Think about it the last thing you would want to do is think about school after failing a test. The parents before the movie should reinforce or let their kids know that in WHATEVER they need help with studying cone to them. Does not matter if it's a simple question or hard question. NEVER TELL YOUR KIDS THEY ARE STUPID. NEVER TELL YOUR KIDS THAT IT WAS OBVIOUS AND HOW THEY DIDNT GET IT. The movie is an escape and a way for you to enjoy spending time with your parents. Thank you for coming to my TEDTalk
"Nobody is perfect" Students nowadays need to hear this and parents too. Cheating rates have skyrocketed because of the immense pressure of getting into good universities or just a simple test.
I bombed a quiz a few days ago and i was panicking the entire night. My teacher said he wasn’t grading it cuz a lot of people failed, but im still scared of my parents knowing. This helped me a bit.
i love this. there’s a huge difference between studying hard for a test and failing and procrastinating the rocks out of your work and failing. you can tell which one gets punished
@Si guy my parents want me to take med but I want to do aeronautical engineering and they won't listen to me, they weren't even happy when I got into MIT
I’m studying engineering paths right now! If it is that important to your parents and you (especially you) you can always look into biological engineering… you can design prosthetics’ and/or medicines. Good luck god bless
I respect the idea and if your kid study’s really hard and still fails then that’s no problem. However I’d make sure that you don’t teach them into believing that they shouldn’t strive to get good grades. Btw I am a high school student
Yes I agree. My parents tell me that they know I work hard and do my best and so they don’t get mad over one bad grade. It doesn’t determine the rest of your life. But if they know you’re not putting in any effort and aren’t trying your best, then the parent should try to do something about that
“No one is perfect” My mom wants the complete opposite of those words. Even a B’s made me look useless in her eyes. Having parents who don’t believe that if you fail your test your a failure, would be lovely.
As someone who is a perfectionist and taking high school level classes in eighth grade, this makes me feel really good. My parents think I should have at least a 90 on my tests.
as someone who took three high school classes before they even started high school, don't pressure yourself. give yourself time and breaks. remind yourself that you're not even in high school and you're doing those classes!! i'm proud of you, and so is mom and dad
Uuhhh!! Literally failed a test last week! (haven't gotten the results, but I already know that they suck) So, thank you so much :) My real parents did nothing of the sort... ㅠㅠ
You don't know how much this is helping me. My parents get mad at me for having an A-, and I always feel pressured to be perfect. Thank you so, so much for being like this 💗
Thank you, my parents hold me to really high standards, once I got a 97 on a paper and I got yelled at and they won’t listen when I talk about my anxiety and say I’m making it up for attention
if i ever had kids i would never want them to go through what i have to go through. its tough. you guys make me so happy. i would kill to have parents like you.
I'm a teen and I love the way your parenting works but I think I'm going to make with my parents cuz they educate me well and they know what's fair or not. I'm happy with them.
This literally made me cry because of how strict my parents are when I don’t get anything but perfect. I have almost always done good but lately I have been falling behind and the outcome from my parents has not been good and all I want is for someone to tell me that I did good for once because it seems they never do
@Andy exactly, the first time I went to therapy (because of other reasons) we did a group thing with my parents and afterwords I was in the car with my dad and he goes “I think it’s really dumb you are depressed and suicidal, you have an amazing home with a roof over your head and food. You are so ungrateful” and I tried talking to my therapist about it a couple weeks later and she told me “ well it is your fault, you made him feel like he wasn’t doing enough” like how do you think I feel?
